For they being ignorant of God's righteousness, 

and going about to establish their own righteousness, 

have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God.

Romans 10:3

...their thoughts the mean while 

accusing

or else excusing 

one another.

Rom 2:15

There is a way that seemeth right unto a man,

but the end thereof are the ways of death.

Prov 16:25

What people say is ok or not ok....what people allow or condemn....is not necessarily in agreement to what God says is ok or not ok, what God allows or condemns.   We must align ourselves with God's Word and God's ways above all.