Have you ever done something
wrong or started to do something but felt guilty about doing it? If you don’t or didn’t, you should. Something deep inside should tell you that
you shouldn’t be doing whatever it is (whether it’s stealing, lying, cheating, etc).
Once you have the Holy Ghost, we
should feel that feeling of guilt whenever we do something that is a sin.
It’s
called Conviction.
A few years ago, I was listening
to KLOVE and kept hearing them repeatedly play a young woman’s call-in
concerning how she felt about the radio station. I didn’t pay attention to the
first part of what she said, but the last part caught my attention. She said,
“…when I
listen to KLOVE, I don’t feel any conviction,
and that’s a good thing.”
Is it really a good thing?
People confuse conviction with condemnation.
Conviction means to ‘convince of error or
sinfulness’.
Condemnation means
‘the expression of very strong disapproval, to blame, to pronounce guilt.
A feeling of Condemnation can cause a person to feel hopeless
and want to give up.
While the feeling of conviction
helps a person know they are doing something wrong.
God put within each person a
conscience to give a feeling of guilt, not to condemn, but to help steer a
person away from sin and prod them to do what is right.
The Holy Ghost will convict us when we’re doing wrong if we
will listen.
If we don’t feel that little
nudge of conviction when we’re doing something wrong, then we need to examine
our prayer life a little more closely to see if we’re not praying as much or
like we should.
Proverbs 14:12 warns…
There is
a way which seemeth right unto a man,
but the end thereof are the ways of death.
There is a tendency for a person to
justify or excuse away bad behavior thinking it’s no big deal or God does not
really care.
Many do not see anything wrong
with how they’re living or what they’re doing.
Example: King David – he
tried to cover his sin of committing adultery with Bathsheba by having her
husband killed and then marrying her.
The Bible does not say whether or
not he felt a little guilt over what he’d done. From reading the account, it
appears he was more concerned with not getting caught than about the two sins
he had just committed. I can only speculate and wonder if perhaps he justified the
murder of Uriah because Uriah was a Hittite.
Uriah the Hittite was listed as
one of the valiant men in David’s army (1 Chron 11:26, 41). If he was a valiant man and fought FOR David
and not against, then why would David send an order to have the army retreat
and leave Uriah to be killed by the enemy?
David knew the commandment of God
was that adulterers were to be killed. (Ex 20:14; Lev 20:10) He was the King. He couldn’t let that happen. David also knew that God had previously
commanded the children of Israel when they were conquering that land to utterly
destroy every Hittite yet they didn’t. (Dt 20:17) Perhaps this was the excuse David needed and
used to justify the murder of Uriah?
When David’s sin was revealed
though Nathan the prophet in a parable, he still didn’t feel the conviction he should
have. His blood boiled as Prophet Nathan
told him a story of a stolen lamb…
There
were two men in one city – the one rich and the other poor.
The rich man had exceeding many flocks and herds.
But the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb,
which he had bought and nourished up:
and it grew up together with him, and with his children…
And there came a traveler unto the rich man,
and he (the rich man)….took the poor man’s lamb,
and dressed it (cooked to serve) for the man that was come to him.
(2 Samuel 12)
David began to think about how he
would have felt if that was one of his father’s sheep that had been stolen and
eaten. King David felt condemnation in
his heart toward this rich man for killing the poor man’s only lamb and wanted
him to pay for this injustice! Yet, he
did not feel conviction in his heart concerning his own sins of adultery and murder.
He thought no one knew.
King David did not see himself as
the man in the mirror until Prophet Nathan pointed his finger and said, “THOU
art the man!” That was when he finally felt
conviction and truly repented for the wrongs he had done. (Read David’s prayer
of repentance in Psalm 51) Two innocent lives paid for his transgression….Uriah,
Bathsheba’s first husband, and the baby conceived in adultery.
Sometimes the innocent suffer and
pay the price for another person’s sin. It’s
not just. It’s not fair. But it happens unfortunately. While God is just to forgive when a person
sincerely repents, it’s also a reminder not to justify the actions of the guilty
or condemn the innocent.
Everyone thinks they are a
Christian and saved nowadays, despite living a life that is completely contrary
to Scripture.
They’ll smoke, drink, cuss, yell
and scream violently at others, repeatedly commit fornication or adultery, and
some will even steal and others have committed murder yet still insist they’re
saved and on their way to Heaven.
Many do not feel conviction over
the sins they are committing. They do
not feel remorse nor do they believe there are or will be consequences for
their actions. Many think they’re on the right road going the right way, but if
the way they are living is opposite of the way the Bible says to live then they
are not on the right path.
I saw a tombstone one time with
the saying, “He did it his way.” That’s a sad way to live, yet, that’s the way
so many want and choose to live.
People today do not want anyone
to tell them the way they’re living is wrong and a sin. They don’t want anyone to say anything that
may make them feel conviction concerning their sinfulness. They love their sin, they love doing what
they want to do, and do not want anyone to make them feel bad for it.
Our life is not our own. We were bought with a price. We are not to live life ‘our way.’ Instead,
we should strive to live our life ‘God’s way.’
We need to pray daily so that the
Holy Ghost can lead and guide us in the way we are to live.
2 Corinthians 7:10
For godly
sorrow worketh repentance to salvation (CONVICTION)
not to be repented of:
but the sorrow of the world worketh
death. (CONDEMNATION)
The
purpose of feeling ‘conviction’ is not to condemn us
or cause us to feel hopeless and give up.
It’s there to lead and guide us
back onto the right path when we start to stray on to the wrong path.
It was conviction that caused
those gathered in Jerusalem on the Day of Pentecost to repent of their sins and
turn to serve Jesus.
Acts 2:37
Now when they heard this,
they were pricked in their heart,
(they became convicted) and
said unto Peter and to the rest
of the apostles, Men and brethren, what shall
we do?
The Bible records that there were
3,000 souls added to the Kingdom that day as they became convicted and turned
from their sins, were baptized in Jesus name and were filled with the Holy
Ghost.
Jesus
said in John 16:7-8
Nevertheless
I tell you the truth;
it is expedient (important) for you that I go away: for if I go not away,
the Comforter (Holy Ghost)
will not come unto you;
but if I depart, I will send him unto you. And when He is come,
He will reprove (convict) the world
of sin,
and of righteousness, and of judgment.
The purpose of the Holy Ghost is
to convict us of sin, show us what we’re doing wrong, and then lead us into
living right before God.
Jesus said in Revelation
3:19, “As many as I love, I rebuke (convict) and chasten; be zealous therefore
and repent.
Jesus is saying in this passage of Scripture, “I
convict those I love.”
It’s the love and mercy of Jesus that brings
conviction to our lives.
Once we feel that conviction when
we’ve sinned (done something that is wrong in God’s eyes), the next thing we
need to do is acknowledge our sin to God and ask Him to forgive us.
1 John
1:9
If we
confess (admit) our sins,
He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins,
and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Just as we forgive our children
when they admit they’ve done something wrong, God does the very same.
He said He’s faithful and just to
forgive us of our sins IF we confess and admit we’ve done wrong…whether it’s in
feelings, thoughts, actions, or words.
Once we admit our sins and ask
God to forgive us, then we must strive not to commit the sin again.
WHAT IF I
DON’T FEEL CONVICTION
OR THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG TO DO?
We must always follow and obey
what the Bible says concerning each matter regardless of whether we feel conviction
about something or not.
Our ‘feelings’ can deceive us. And they often will.
A popular saying is to ‘follow your heart’ but the Bible
says….
Jeremiah
17:9
The heart is deceitful above all things,
And desperately wicked: who can know it?
We can not follow after our
feelings. We have to follow the Bible.
Because the heart is desperately
wicked and will deceive a person into doing wrong while ‘feeling’ that there’s
nothing wrong with what they’re doing.
Sadly, there are people who will cheat
and steal and never feel bad about what they were doing although the Bible
clearly says that stealing is a sin.
There are those who will fly into
a rage, angrily yelling at others giving them a piece of their mind (the Bible calls
them revilers) all while not feeling remorse or conviction that their temper is
a sin.
People fornicate, or commit
adultery, they’ll move in and live with someone they’re not married to (the
Bible uses the word “chambering”) yet they do not see anything wrong with
it.
The Bible calls those that do
these things unrighteous and warns over and over that anyone who does such
things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. (1 Cor 6:9-10)
Paul continues, “and such WERE
some of you.” (vs 11) That is past tense.
Once you are Born Again, those old sinful ways should be something of
the past, not things that keep recurring in the present and future.
That is not to bring
condemnation. If we mess up but then repent,
God is faithful to forgive.
A common problem today even
within the ‘church’ is people see nothing wrong with telling what is considered
‘a little white lie.’ They do not feel conviction over it.
There is no such thing as a ‘little
white lie’! A lie is a lie whether it’s
little or big, whether it’s completely fabricated or merely twisting or
omitting parts of the truth to avoid a sticky situation.
The Bible says,
But the
fearful, and unbelieving,
and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and idolaters,
and all liars, shall have their part
in the lake which burneth with fire and
brimstone:
which is the second death.
Rev 21:8
It is concerning and scary when
someone who claims to be a Christian will twist the truth and not feel bad
about lying. I’ve heard some excuse and
reason it away…. “I didn’t want them to be mad.” Or “it’s better if they don’t
know the truth.” Or “it really isn’t lying.” Etc. Yet, the Bible says ALL liars shall have
their part in the lake of fire.
It’s dangerous to make excuses
for sin. It can lead a person to have a
seared conscious. We need to let the Holy Ghost convict us and not ignore it. The Bible will never direct us to do
wrong.
Conviction leads us to repentance
– turning away from, shunning, forsaking sin.
God loves us too much to leave us
the way He found us.
If a person is not feeling
conviction over something the Bible clearly calls a sin, that’s NOT a ‘good
thing.’
He gives us the Holy Ghost to
lead us, guide us, and direct us in the paths of righteousness (right living),
but we have to allow Him to convict us. Then we need to listen to the little
nudges that His Spirit gives and obey Him.
We need to become more sensitive
and allow God to convict us for anything we allow our eyes to see that
we shouldn’t. There will be times that
you may not be able to help or avoid what comes before your eyes. But we are responsible for what we continue
to allow our eyes to look upon. David
should have looked away but instead he continued to look which led to sin.
We need to become more sensitive
and allow God to convict us for anything we allow our ears to listen to
that is not pleasing to God. You may not
be able to control at times what you hear as you walk past people, but you don’t
have to stay and continue to listen to it whether it’s cussing, worldly music,
crude speech, gossip, etc.
We need to become more sensitive
and allow God to convict us for any word we may utter that is not
pleasing to the ears of God.
We need to become more sensitive
and allow God to convict us for wrong thoughts. They may pop in your head but you don’t have
to allow them to take up residence there.
Cast them out and begin to think on good things.
We need to become more sensitive and allow God to convict us for any thing we may wear that He is not pleased. Yes, God looks on the inside, but from Scripture we also find that God also looks on the outside (beginning in Genesis when God changed Adam and Eve’s clothes from skimpy fig leaves to a modest coat). How a person dresses is often a reflection of what is going on in the inside.
We need to become more sensitive
and allow God to convict us for any thing we may do or places we may
go that is not pleasing to God.
Conviction IS a ‘Good
Thing’! We need more of it!