FRUIT OF
THE SPIRIT – Gentleness, Goodness, Faith
The fifth fruit of the Spirit
mentioned is: GENTLENESS
When you hear the word
‘gentleness’ or ‘gentle,’ what do you think of it as meaning?
Oxford dictionary gives this
definition: the quality of being kind, tender, or mild-mannered.
Strong’s Concordance (G5544) will
at times substitute the word gentleness with kindness or goodness (the next
fruit of the Spirit). If you ask google,
“what are the 9 fruit of the spirit?” it will mention kindness instead of
gentleness.
Dictionary.com defines gentleness
as: an absence of bad temper or belligerence.
Gentle has reference especially to disposition and behavior and is also
associated with forbearance (lonsuffering/putting up with) in dealing with
others.
When you begin to study the fruit
of the Spirit, you will see how closely each are intertwined with the
characteristic of another.
Paul teaches in his letter to the
Church in Colossia, how we as Christians are to act toward one another.
Colossians 3:12 says to: put on
therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, KINDNESS,
humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering (there’s the fruit of
longsuffering/patience mentioned again).
As Christians, the elect (chosen)
of God, we are to be merciful toward others.
Did you notice that word mercies in this Scripture is plural? Our mercy toward others should be abounding
just as God’s mercy toward us is abounding and new every morning. (Lam 3:22-23)
Humbleness of mind and meekness
mean nearly the same thing. One is how
you think about yourself and the other is how you act toward others yet both
are indicating that we should not think more highly of ourselves than we
should.
We are also to put on KINDNESS
(also sometimes mentioned as GENTLENESS – G5544).
Paul instructed the Ephesians in
Ephesians 4:31-32…
Let all bitterness (poison), and
wrath (fierceness, extreme anger), and anger (strong feeling of hostility), and
clamour (shouting in anger), and evil speaking (saying things to or about
someone that are hateful and hurtful) be put away from you, with all malice
(intention or desire of ill will toward another). ß These
are the works of the flesh, things/feelings/actions that will hinder us from
inheriting the Kingdom of God. These are
things we need to put off.
I heard a story of someone who
was supposed to be a Christian, yet grew angry at the service or lack of it at
a restaurant so she slammed a chair down on the server’s foot which ended up
breaking it.
In a separate incident, I
witnessed someone call the server ‘toad’ and look disdainfully at them. That server did not do anything that I could
see to merit such hostility. That person was dealing with internal anger (evil
speaking) that they then vented onto that poor server. Jesus was not pleased, and I was embarrassed
to be seen with them.
Those two instances are the
OPPOSITE of the Fruit of the Spirit.
That is not showing gentleness or kindness toward others. If Jesus would not behave in such a manner,
neither should we.
The fruit of the Spirit helps us
to: BE YE KIND ONE TO ANOTHER, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as
God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.
These are traits we need to put on and bind around us tightly.
Paul wrote to the Romans
reminding them in Romans 2:4 that it is the GOODNESS (meaning the Gentleness,
the kindness) of God that leads us to repentance. Thank God for His goodness/His kindness that
helps lead us to repentance.
We want God to be KIND/GENTLE
toward us. In the same manner, we need
to be kind and gentle toward others. We
never know how our kindness shown toward others may affect and lead them to
Jesus Christ.
The Bible talks about doing good
to our enemies and likens it to ‘heaping coals of fire on their heads.’ (Prov
25:21-22) God showed me a few years ago
that this is not meaning it as a way of taking vengeance on them, but rather it
may warm their heart. He is not going to reward us for intending ill or harm
toward someone, but He will reward us for extending undeserved kindness. It is
a way of overcoming evil with good instead of being destroyed by their evil. (Romans
12:20-21)
Being Gentle/being kind can be
tough to exhibit toward some people sometimes, especially if they are hostile
toward you. Many years ago, I had a
cashier acting hateful toward me. I
didn’t know her. I hadn’t said or done
anything mean to her. I continued being kind despite her rudeness and finally
asked, “Has it been a rough day?” She
nearly broke down crying as she explained that it had been and that a previous
customer had been hostile toward her earlier in the day. It had stayed with her and festered as she
then became hostile toward others.
Attitudes are contagious – be careful
as to which kind of attitude you’re spreading. A kind reaction with care and
concern helped to diffuse a tense situation.
I could have caught and spread that bad attitude that she had caught and
was spreading, but instead I chose to be kind/to be gentle.
God didn’t say to only be kind to
those who are kind to us. He said, “if
your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he’s
thirsty, give him something to drink.” (Prov 25:21) He instructs us in Luke
6:35 to do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be
great, and ye shall be the Children of the Highest: FOR HE IS KIND UNTO THE
UNTHANKFUL AND TO THE EVIL. Wow! God is
kind to those who are thankful AND even to those who are evil. How much more should we be?
We do our part (displaying the
fruit of the Spirit) without ulterior motives or expecting anything in return, then
leave the outcome in God’s hands.
Be Gentle – Be Kind to others –
even if they’re not to you.
The sixth fruit of the Spirit
mentioned is: GOODNESS
This is the quality of being
morally good and virtuous (having high moral standards).
The New Testament uses many words
to describe the characteristics and behaviors of those who are morally good and
striving to be virtuous such as: just; righteous; holy; pure. Those who are morally good and virtuous will
also exhibit the characteristic of being gentle and kind (the previous fruit of
the Spirit mentioned).
Romans 12:1 – present your bodies
a living sacrifice, HOLY (morally blameless, pure, consecrated), acceptable
unto God, which is your reasonable service. (Asking us to be holy, morally
blameless, pure, and consecrated to God so that we are acceptable to Him is not
asking anything unreasonable. Paul said
it is our REASONABLE service. It’s
possible, but it takes denying the will of the flesh.)
Romans 14:7 – The Kingdom of God
is not meat and drink; but RIGHTEOUSNESS (right living), and peace and joy in
the Holy Ghost.
1 Corinthians 3:17 – If any man
destroy the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is
HOLY, WHICH TEMPLE YE ARE.
1 Corinthians 6:19 – What? Know ye not that YOUR BODY IS THE TEMPLE OF THE HOLY
GHOST which is in you, which ye have of God, and YE ARE NOT YOUR OWN?
When we have the Holy Ghost
living inside of us, which is the Spirit of Christ, we are to be holy in every
way (morally blameless, pure and consecrated to God) because we are the place
that Christ dwells. He purchased and redeemed us with His own
Blood therefore He owns us and has the right to require us to be separate from
the world, live a certain way, and avoid doing certain things. We are not our own - we now belong to Jesus
Christ. Therefore, we are to glorify God
in our body and in our Spirit, which are God’s. (1 Cor 6:20)
Lot’s righteous soul was vexed
daily by seeing their unlawful deeds and by hearing the filthy conversation of
the wicked in Sodom and Gomorrah. (2 Peter 2:7-8) We do the same to Jesus when
we listen to conversations or music that promotes or sings about ungodly things
or if we watch/set anything before our eyes that is unholy and immoral. If Jesus wouldn’t listen to certain music or
talk, watch anything unwholesome or unholy, or go to certain places then
neither should we.
Ephesians 1:4 – …we should be
HOLY and without blame before Him in love.
Colossians 1:22 – …to present you
HOLY and unblameable and unreproveable in His sight.
1 Peter 1:15-16 – But as He which
hath called you is HOLY, so be ye HOLY in all manner of conversation (meaning
behavior which can include what we say). Because it is written, be ye holy; for
I am holy.
2 Peter 3:11 – Seeing then that
all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in
all HOLY conversation (meaning behavior which can include what we say) and
godliness. (Dictionary.com defines
godliness in this way: conforming to the laws and wishes of God; devoutness and
moral uprightness)
As we grow in God and draw closer
to Him, we will begin to bring forth the Fruit of Goodness (being morally good
and virtuous which means having high moral standards).
The seventh fruit of the Spirit
mentioned is: Faith
Strong’s defines Faith (G4102) as
being: your persuasion, moral conviction of religious truth.
Your faith should be more than
just words (‘I believe in Jesus’). It
should be a conviction so strong that what you believe is Truth that you
cannot be swayed or persuaded to believe anything different from it, and you are
willing to die rather than deny it…just as the early Christians did and those
in foreign countries are having to do.
Daniel’s moral conviction of what
was religious truth was so strong, he was willing to be thrown in a den of
hungry ferocious lions than to deny the God He would one day have to stand
before. He refused to pray to a mortal
ruler who would also one day have to stand before the One True God. Because Daniel held to his moral convictions
and would not deny God, God shut the mouth of the lions and delivered Daniel
out the den.
The 3 Hebrew boys (Hananiah,
Mishael, and Azariah) were willing to face being thrown into a fiery furnace
than to deny their God and kneel before a statue to appease the pride and
rebellion of the Babylonian ruler. Because these 3 young men held to their moral
convictions and would not deny God or bow to please man, God walked with them
in the midst of the fire for the King of Babylon to see and brought them out
without any burns, singes, or even a twinge of the smell of smoke.
Peter who proclaimed boldly, “I
will NEVER deny You, Jesus!” (Mark 14:31) and cut off the ear of the high
priest’s servant with a sword as they came to arrest Jesus (Mark 14:47) suddenly
grew scared as he feared that he, too, would be arrested, convicted, and hung
on a cross just as they were about to do with Jesus. He was so scared that he cursed adamantly
denying that he knew who Jesus was. I’m
sure his heart smote him when he heard the rooster crowing as he realized what
he had done. (Mark 14:66-72) Yet, later,
we find he became a bold preacher of the Gospel who could not be swayed. (see the book of Acts and 1 + 2 Peter)
Steven, in the New Testament,
held so tightly to his religious convictions that he was willing to suffer and
die for Jesus Christ rather than deny Him.
As he felt life leaving his body, he didn’t hold any anger or malice or
unforgiveness in his heart. He didn’t
pray and ask God to remember their deeds, words and actions and repay them for
the evil they were doing against him.
Instead, he prayed that God would not hold it against those who were
stoning him. (Acts 7:58-59) It’s one thing to be willing to die for our faith
in Jesus Christ. It’s more challenging
to forgive and hold no bitterness against someone who is wounding us.
I have to wonder if his strong
stand for his faith and the forgiveness in his heart made a difference in the
heart of a man named Saul. Saul, stood
by watching and holding everyone’s coats as they stoned Steven until he died. Saul heard the jeers of his peers yet he
also heard the cry for their forgiveness coming from Steven’s lips as his
writhed in agony.
Saul thought he was doing the
will of God. He thought he was standing
for his religious convictions against what he perceived to be a false
doctrine. UNTIL, Jesus shown a light on
him as he was on his way to Damascus to persecute and kill more Christians. After that encounter, Saul changed sides,
and Jesus changed his name. Saul now
became known as Paul. The persecutor now
became the persecuted. And now, Paul
understood how and why Steven was willing to die for His faith. When you have a life changing encounter with
the Savior, you will never be the same.
There are so many more examples I
could give, but is our faith that strong that we are willing to die for what we
believe?
Could we still stand for Jesus
and not deny His name or our Faith despite the possibility of dying for it just
as the early Christians did and as the Christians in foreign countries are
forced to choose?
If it’s not, we need to pray and
ask God to help our Faith to grow stronger.
Jesus said if we deny Him, He
will deny us. (Matthew 10:33)
But if we will boldly confess (acknowledge)
Him before everyone, He will also confess (acknowledge) us. (Matthew 10:32)
We need to become rooted (stable)
and built up (building upon Christ Jesus) so that we will become established (strengthened)
in the Faith. (Colossians 2:7)